The rubber plug on the 8.25 is not a "drain" plug, but a "check" plug.
Or a "fill" plug.
Its what you put the lube back into after youve removed the cover and drained it.
And as far as i know there is no other replacement for the rubber plug.
Unless you buy an aftermarket diff cover.
As far as the Dana 30, just use a ratchet w/o any attachment.
Dont know the size# but it's the midsize wrench.
(im currently having a brainfart)