Lets say you fall madly in love with her. House, kids, etc... She has a 70% chance of dieing do to smoking. Do you really want to go through that?
What if she was an alcoholic, or a drug abuser? Would you still consider getting to know her better? I mean a drunk good looking chick is hard to pass up I know but... :rofl:
ugghhhhh! I would puke! I wouldn't let her mouth touch any part of my body! Unless she gave me money!
well since I have this slight addiction in my driveway that is white, has 4 drs, 4 wheel drive and my wife has cut off the vehicle modification fund for now, I have to come up with new and creative ways to make a buck. I know that you understand.:rofl:
Mouth hugs from a smoker.....(barfs).Wow...you guys are harsh.
I used to smoke, so I can't condemn anybody else for doing it. As long as she freshens her breath by giving you a mouth hug after each smoke, what's the problem??
Never go into any relationship with the idea that this would be a perfect person to be with if I can only fix _____. It will fail. The person needs to be themselves for their sanity. If you find someone willing to change for you chances are they will resent it, even subconsciously.I know. There'd be a fairly simple ultimatum if I end up persuing anything with her. It's one of those things, kinda look at 'er as a project car. Needs a little work here and there, but providing I didn't miss anything major on the first inspect it might be a solid starting point. Of course, I realize that all projects always wind up costing far more, and not being half as fun as first anticipated.
Never go into any relationship with the idea that this would be a perfect person to be with if I can only fix _____. It will fail. The person needs to be themselves for their sanity. If you find someone willing to change for you chances are they will resent it, even subconsciously.
There are thousands of people that you are compatible with. Don't buy into the notion that this is your "soul mate". That's a load of crap. If there is something you don't like about a person, move on.
If you are so desperate to "make" a relationship work out, well that's really bad and you should be alone until you figure out what your problem is. Don't settle, don't fix. A good relationship should be a natural thing, not forced.
lol, oh I know it's all fun and games at first. Next thing you know there are children, seperation and divorce. You look at this as just someone fun to be with, I remember what happened after the "fun to be with". I think they call it "shell shock". :rofl:Woah. You're moving too fast for me here. I was thinking that she'd be a lot of fun if she didn't have this dirty habit, not 'I'm going to hawk my excess jeep parts to buy her a wedding ring'.
Although, you do make a good point.