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kind of how im feeling...

everything that happends to me is just worst and worst....

some of you may remember what happend with my girlfriend(ex gf now)

well a week after she broke up with me for no reason...she called me crying..asking me to get back...and me like an idiot did it...a month passes by..and she just got worst and worst...and finally last thursday i told her...it was done...it was over...im was sick of her shit..and thats it...next day called me crying...saying im sorry blah blah blah...i said its ok i dont hate you...but i dont want you ..i cant be with someone that doesnt respect me and appreciate me...so on sunday she told me a butnch of shit because someone told her i went to starkbucks with a friend(daniela)...and..w.e... i told her to just dissapier from my life and leave me alone...she hasnt....w.e..iim ignoring her...

now...my jeep is giving me shit with different things...steering...wasting gas...idk..im sick of it.....

my dad is been the biggest dick ever...cuz...."i never do stuff around the house" when im the one who does everything...and he always says i dont do the in a happy manner...

my mom hates the new labrador i got...and she says she is geeting allergy from him..so my dad said he it doesnt stop...we are giving him away....

thisd friend daniela...has been there for me...since i broke up with my ex...and i think im falling....she treats me so nice..loves off roading..loves wrenching with me....loves my dog...idk..she is just great and all this things happend in less than a week...and i find her awesome...

my mom for some reason doesnt like her..:s...apprently my mom was like "in love" with my ex...

oh wait..isnt that enough..i have a month looking for a job and i cant find anything ....

im running out of money....and nothing good is happening in my damn life....

im scare of going in a depression....

im scared..im sad..im down..im hurt...idk..

i want to run away..:S..i want to be alone...i want to just forget all the 19 years i have live so far....
 

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Well, ignore the X, that's just a headache waiting to happen. The chick is gonna be like herpes, she's gonna keep popping up, usually at the worst time, until she get it thru her head. And all that crap with her talk? B.S., she's just trying to save her fragile ego because you told her for a 2nd time that you're done with her sh*t. Now, be done with her sh*t.

It's a Jeep, it will always give you sh*t with different things, esp. when it knows you don't have a lot of $$$ (ALL cars do this).

Either you have allergies or you don't. You don't gradually develop them over a short period of time. And anyway, exposure to said allergens will desensitize the person afflicted with the allergy, thereby making then not as allergic to it, and eventually making them not allergic to it. If they don't like that answer, buy them a sugar pill and see if it works. Then call them on it.

Take it slow with the friend. If she's got all your same interests, cool. That's a Score! to find someone like that. F*ck the X, that chick got her head in her *ss and not a clue it's there. Sh*t happens like that, when you least expect them, that's when you meet them.

So tell your mom to date your X if she likes her so much, you had enough. Date who you're gonna date, hell with what the parents say.

Welcome to the sh*tty economy, all I can say if try to find a job anywhere. The auto parts stores are usually good. They hire idiots usually, and you have a DEFINATE leg up on them with your experience with the Jeep, not to mention you have common sense. Try them all, see what happens. If not there, try a local home improvement or lumber yard. You're in Miami, you won't freeze your *ss off, so be yard help. Or if you don't mind labor jobs, try going to Labor Ready or something similiar. They're a temp service for laborers.
 

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kind of how im feeling...

everything that happends to me is just worst and worst....

some of you may remember what happend with my girlfriend(ex gf now)

well a week after she broke up with me for no reason...she called me crying..asking me to get back...and me like an idiot did it...a month passes by..and she just got worst and worst...and finally last thursday i told her...it was done...it was over...im was sick of her shit..and thats it...next day called me crying...saying im sorry blah blah blah...i said its ok i dont hate you...but i dont want you ..i cant be with someone that doesnt respect me and appreciate me...so on sunday she told me a butnch of shit because someone told her i went to starkbucks with a friend(daniela)...and..w.e... i told her to just dissapier from my life and leave me alone...she hasnt....w.e..iim ignoring her...

now...my jeep is giving me shit with different things...steering...wasting gas...idk..im sick of it.....

my dad is been the biggest dick ever...cuz...."i never do stuff around the house" when im the one who does everything...and he always says i dont do the in a happy manner...

my mom hates the new labrador i got...and she says she is geeting allergy from him..so my dad said he it doesnt stop...we are giving him away....

thisd friend daniela...has been there for me...since i broke up with my ex...and i think im falling....she treats me so nice..loves off roading..loves wrenching with me....loves my dog...idk..she is just great and all this things happend in less than a week...and i find her awesome...

my mom for some reason doesnt like her..:s...apprently my mom was like "in love" with my ex...

oh wait..isnt that enough..i have a month looking for a job and i cant find anything ....

im running out of money....and nothing good is happening in my damn life....

im scare of going in a depression....

im scared..im sad..im down..im hurt...idk..

i want to run away..:S..i want to be alone...i want to just forget all the 19 years i have live so far....
the thing with your ex, well she's obviously got problems if she can't get over the fact that you don't want to be with her anymore, which shows that she thinks she's better than everyone else and can't possibly have anyone above her. my current boyfriend has an ex like that, and trust me, it's been a year and a half since they broke up and she STILL will not leave him alone. girls like that are hard to get rid of. she just needs to get a reality check and get moving on.

jeeps do that, when you're having a bad day they like to be more dysfunctional than usual but that's just a part of owning a vehicle. it always seems that when i'm running late my jeep won't start for about five minutes.

parents... well they are a different story. maybe they're in a funk too, i've had my mom give me the whole 'you don't do anything' when i come home from school before she does and i'll vacuum and load the dishwasher and do whatever else she wants me to do. if your mom truly had allergies, wouldn't she just have told you BEFORE you got the dog? there are allergy meds out there too that remedy symptoms. i'm allergic to dogs and i have three of them, you just have to find a way to cope with having it.

thats good that you've found someone else with your similar interests. hold off for a little bit though, since your ex is still in super drama queen mode she'll find any reason she can to rag on you and bring you down. don't let her get in your head, because she'll try all she can to break you down little by little and make you come back to her again. manipulation!

your mom was just probably used to having your ex around. so naturally she won't like a new girl. my mom really disliked alot of my exes and even my current boyfriend until she got to know him. if you just let them get to know each other then maybe your mom will come around. and if your mom doesn't, well then she's not the one dating the girl, is she? you are old enough to make your own decisions for yourself.

the thing with jobs is just staying persistent, it is really tough to find anything right now with the sucky economy. don't be so quick to give up, you've made it this far, haven't you? things always get worse before they get better, and you can always have it much much worse. what's meant to be will happen. just every day, try to find something positive that happened to you. the more you focus on the negative, the more formidable it will be. and if you ever need to talk you have a whole forum right here
 

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Don't let the lil stuff like this stress you out. Wait till you have a family to worry about. then make a feel sorry for me thread.

Your life is easy right now just chill and stop thinking so much.
 

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ok pick up your socks and go to the garage with a few brew and a few good friends... guys that is.. have a drink work on the jeep ask them about jobs they know of.
have another drink work on the jeep more. laugh at your buddys getting all dirty and drunk working on your jeep for free.
have another drink and do not at anytime think or even talk about the x.
have an other drink and make something for the jeep that it does not have yet not only will your jeep feel like it is wanted but you will feel good about doing it.
have another drink oh and buy the way buy the time this is done you will not be thinking about her but your jeep will be looking good running good and you can go wheeling the next day with a hangover with your buddys and laugh at all the times you have missed being with her and not working on the jeep and hanging with your buddys.
let me tell ya. girls come and go jeeps and buddys are for ever inless you neglect them... then they just rust break down or find someone elts to hang with.

man your 19 in a month it will be all forgotten.....
Oh and back to the question if you were to run away...where will you go..? Real men don't run away they just roll with the punches and carry on maybe a little slower but, with a little more wisdom.

4Jeepchick I am glad to see your a GF of an army guy that support him.. I am ex Army and your saying is so true
 

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Don't let the lil stuff like this stress you out. Wait till you have a family to worry about. then make a feel sorry for me thread.

Your life is easy right now just chill and stop thinking so much.
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kind of how im feeling...

everything that happends to me is just worst and worst....

some of you may remember what happend with my girlfriend(ex gf now)

well a week after she broke up with me for no reason...she called me crying..asking me to get back...and me like an idiot did it...a month passes by..and she just got worst and worst...and finally last thursday i told her...it was done...it was over...im was sick of her shit..and thats it...next day called me crying...saying im sorry blah blah blah...i said its ok i dont hate you...but i dont want you ..i cant be with someone that doesnt respect me and appreciate me...so on sunday she told me a butnch of shit because someone told her i went to starkbucks with a friend(daniela)...and..w.e... i told her to just dissapier from my life and leave me alone...she hasnt....w.e..iim ignoring her...

now...my jeep is giving me shit with different things...steering...wasting gas...idk..im sick of it.....

my dad is been the biggest dick ever...cuz...."i never do stuff around the house" when im the one who does everything...and he always says i dont do the in a happy manner...

my mom hates the new labrador i got...and she says she is geeting allergy from him..so my dad said he it doesnt stop...we are giving him away....

thisd friend daniela...has been there for me...since i broke up with my ex...and i think im falling....she treats me so nice..loves off roading..loves wrenching with me....loves my dog...idk..she is just great and all this things happend in less than a week...and i find her awesome...

my mom for some reason doesnt like her..:s...apprently my mom was like "in love" with my ex...

oh wait..isnt that enough..i have a month looking for a job and i cant find anything ....

im running out of money....and nothing good is happening in my damn life....

im scare of going in a depression....

im scared..im sad..im down..im hurt...idk..

i want to run away..:S..i want to be alone...i want to just forget all the 19 years i have live so far....
When you run away... What are you going to do for money? How are you going to fix the Jeep? How will you feed that dog? Will the new girl be going with you? Maybe you'll get really lucky and she'll get pregnate. Then these problems will seem very very small to you. ;)

Make some goals for yourself . Make some tough choices. Do what you NEED to do instead of what you WANT to do.

#1 Keep that "girl" friend as a friend that is a girl.
#2 Park that Jeep (until you find a job - you'll find a job faster)
#3 Find the dog a good home (unless you can work it out with your Mom)
#4 Do your chores (without being reminded) with a smile. (Oh and when you are reminded, and you know you will be, apologize and don't let it happen again.)

Yeah I'm a Dad, how'd you know? :dunno:
 

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Make some goals for yourself . Make some tough choices. Do what you NEED to do instead of what you WANT to do.

#1 Keep that "girl" friend as a friend that is a girl.
#2 Park that Jeep (until you find a job - you'll find a job faster)
#3 Find the dog a good home (unless you can work it out with your Mom)
#4 Do your chores (without being reminded) with a smile. (Oh and when you are reminded, and you know you will be, apologize and don't let it happen again.)

Yeah I'm a Dad, how'd you know? :dunno:[/QUOTE]

Oh I Knew but then again I am a Dad. :cheers: oh and :agree: I just said it different then you...lol
 

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Don't let the lil stuff like this stress you out. Wait till you have a family to worry about. then make a feel sorry for me thread.

Your life is easy right now just chill and stop thinking so much.
I'm 22 and tell myself that everyday and life is great.

Take it easy man, you're only 19. I'll let you in on a secret, this won't be the first "hard" break up that you'll go through, it's not the last time you won't see eye-to-eye with your folks, and furthermore, it's not the last time your life is going to suck - it's human nature.

Throughout college me and my parents had so many arguments and disagreements that I seriously thought we'd all end up dead at one point or another. What I came to realize is that blood is stronger than anything else, and if you scratch their back, they'll scratch yours. Do the chores and I bet they'll "forget" about the dog thing.

You're driving a Jeep, do you actually expect it to be "perfect" all the time? Fix what you can, if times are that tough, sell it and get something that may be more reliable. Toys can be bought and sold.

You have to take it in stride, and walk it off. Let all this be a learning experience, I promise that in 5 years you'll look back and wonder "why the hell did I get so worked up over that?"

Good Luck!
 

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damn Will, well

the ex thing, just do what your doing, ingnore her,

your mom alergies, thats no prob, tell her to take some Pills for that, thats pretty common,

your dad, well find the mening of empathy and post it on his car, LOL well, he should be more understanding

both of your parents should know that Choko its a good thing in your life,..

the new girl, well take it easy, dont be with her so that you dont feel lonly, bc that way, she will giving and you taking, and that will end up hurting her and you more..

Job thing, well what about the Porn? it pays...

and as far of where to run away, well you know already,,, :D
 

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amen to that brother

no offense to you elnino or your problems but that's just a funny skit, and truthfully i always say fine when any one asks about me or my family :D
 

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cmon guys..

i just had to let it out..and what better than cherokee people?...

i feel better now...

my new friend came to my house..and well..she brougth me gummy worms..

no im not using her to bget over my ex...i actually like her...and im moving on..my ex made easy when she treated me like shit...

my mom and my dad..well..they get mad but they are parents so they love me again XD..

haha..

belto porn? where can i get info on that XD...lol


the jeep w.e is a jeep...

and....well :bow: www.cherokeetalk.com
 

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you live in Miami, that is easy money.... LOL how about working on a strip club, as a bouncer...
 

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Yeah dude, getting a job right now SUCKS! I was in your shoes not all too long ago (ok, maybe just a week :rofl:) and it does really suck. What you need to do is go around to all the local stores and shops and start asking if they are hiring. If they aren't, grab an application anyways. Then just start applying everywhere and keep calling them ever couple days. Ask your friends if they know of any job openings. Check craigslist and apply for everything you can. You will get a job man, just hang in there.
 

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Yeah dude, getting a job right now SUCKS! I was in your shoes not all too long ago (ok, maybe just a week :rofl:) and it does really suck. What you need to do is go around to all the local stores and shops and start asking if they are hiring. If they aren't, grab an application anyways. Then just start applying everywhere and keep calling them ever couple days. Ask your friends if they know of any job openings. Check craigslist and apply for everything you can. You will get a job man, just hang in there.
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Knowing someone at a company you want to work has the highest success rate in being hired. Talk to your friends, actually talk to anyone that you can think will help you get a job. Hey I bet there are a lot of old people around you. Go ask them if they need help shopping, yard work, etc... Good word of mouth and you'll have a large client base.
 
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